Friday, February 17, 2012

Was Tommy Jordan Out Of Line For Shooting His Daughter’s Laptop?

If you haven’t seen the video of North Carolina dad Tommy Jordan and his gun-toting tirade, the reaction to his daughter’s disrespectful words may seem a bit over the top. However, the IT company owner and proud father has become a YouTube sensation, amassing a whopping 26 million views in just over a week. If you’re in need of a back-story, Mr. Jordan caught wind of his daughter making slanderous remarks about her parents on Facebook.

After reading the unflattering comments left by his daughter, Hannah, on her Facebook wall, Jordan went into his own eight-minute video rant about the things he and his wife have provided for their child, and ended off the video in explosive fashion. Jordan unloads eight shots from a .45 pistol into the laptop, which reportedly gained the man a visit from the authorities, including Child Protective Services. Unapologetic about his reaction and not facing charges, Jordan says the family is closer as a result of what happened although he’s faced a bunch of tough criticism.

On the other side of the negative remarks however, Jordan has amassed a few fans of his version of tough love. While I can appreciate the sentiment behind Jordan’s actions, the use of the gun is where I hop off the train. I can’t endorse using violence to hammer home a point. In a series of news polls done on almost every major media outlet, voters are mostly in approval of Jordan’s actions. Even Dr. Phil himself said he was entertained more than appalled by the video clip.

Disciplining your child is a necessary thing for fathers to administer, although I’d argue that it’s an often difficult thing to do correctly. As children grow older, they have the potential to challenge their parents’ patience in a variety of ways. I don’t imagine I’d ever resort to shooting my daughter’s electronic equipment in order to get her to follow my lead. I hope that my words, steady presence and loving devotion is enough to make sure my child honors not only her parents, but also herself.

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7 comments:

  1. Its not the shooting, that I hated, its the public humiliation of his daughter that is terrible.

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    1. Hm. I happen to feel, and this is my own opinion, that both acts were extreme. I think Jordan could have taught his lesson without resorting to gunfire. Again, I appreciate the sentiment of his actions but not the method.

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      D.L. Chandler
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      www.fatherhood.org

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  2. I agree. Yes, she posted a hateful diatribe against him on the Internet. But she's FIFTEEN. He's an adult. The laptop is just a thing, but his daughter's feelings about the way he responded to her will last a long, long time.

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    1. Allegedly, the family's fine and intact but I can't imagine the image of seeing your father shoot your laptop erases itself easily from the memory of a child. Hopefully, they'll become a close, loving family and won't have to go to such extremes to hammer their points home. This is a clear case of parents and children not using the spaces given to them to speak.

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      D.L. Chandler
      Web Editor
      www.fatherhood.org

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  3. I Loved it! Especially after I read the history prior to the video. I just wonder, if "the rest of the story" would change people's opinions.

    Laurie

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    1. Hey Laurie,

      Do you mind sharing with us the other part of the story?

      D.L. Chandler

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  4. Good for him! She NOW know's how public humiliation feels... she OBVIOUSLY didn't "get it" the first tiime...

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