Excellent TIME magazine cover story: Why Marriage Matters, by Caitlin Flanagan:
Few things hamper a child as much as not having a father at home. "As a feminist, I didn't want to believe it," says Maria Kefalas, a sociologist who studies marriage and family issues and co-authored a seminal book on low-income mothers called Promises I Can Keep: Why Poor Women Put Motherhood Before Marriage.
"Women always tell me, 'I can be a mother and a father to a child,' but it's not true." Growing up without a father has a deep psychological effect on a child. "The mom may not need that man," Kefalas says, "but her children still do."
Tuesday, July 7, 2009
We couldn't agree more.
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I completely agree, and hope that more dads will heal their wounds and their shame—to step up in the service of their children, and discover that this will actually heal themselves.
ReplyDeleteNamaste, Bruce